chore(connect): clean up ordering in deploy-to-connect skill

[joshyam-k]

Harden the skill into 6 carefully ordered steps:

1. Detect the content
2. Inventory your tools
3. Pick a route
4. Check credentials for that tool
5. Resolve discrepancies (self-heal)
6. Deploy and handle failure

These edits also:

• improve parity between R and python deployments for authentication instructions- in particular preferring interactive browser flows.
• remove command reference tables that an agent could figure out on its own

[mconflitti-pbc]

Any interesting findings running this through the eval harness, just curious. Or did these come out of that?

[joshyam-k]

Any interesting findings running this through the eval harness, just curious. Or did these come out of that?

eval showed that the trigger success rate still isn't quite right, so I might try to work on that and loop it in here if I find a way to tweak the description to get this to fire more consistently.

https://github.com/posit-dev/connect/pull/41598#issuecomment-5063919018

update: this was just an issue in one of the scripts things look good now